Bride’s Mother Sparks Heated Debate over Her Dress at Daughter’s Wedding: ‘Shocking’

Social media users are clashing in opinions after seeing a bride’s mother wearing a stunning gown to her daughter’s wedding. Some people felt the dress took the spotlight from the bride, but she didn’t agree. Read on to hear people’s differing opinions.

A Louisiana woman found herself in hot water with netizens over a dress she chose to wear to her daughter’s wedding at the beginning of the month. Her daughter has since explained what she thought of her mother’s viral dress choice.

Amanda DeWitt LeBlanc and Andrew LeBlanc at their wedding on June 1, 2024, in New York City | Source: Instagram Story/A + A

On June 5, 2024, wedding content creator Chloe LeBlanc uploaded an Instagram clip from a wedding she was involved in. The footage was set to background music from Billie Eilish’s “Birds of a Feather.” She captioned the post praising the mother-of-the-bride’s (MOB) dress, writing, “The most stunning MOB dress we’ve ever seen!”

In the video, Lori DeWitt, the MOB, was seen interacting with guests, her husband, and her daughter in a custom-made Audrey + Brooks gown. The woman’s green dress, which had tongues wagging on social media, featured a detachable bow and train, a floral design, and a plunging neckline.

Lori DeWitt and Robert Chance DeWitt at their daughter's wedding in a clip uploaded on June 5, 2024 | Source: Instagram/capturedbychloe.co

While the 53-year-old looked stunning, some people thought she’d upstaged her daughter, Amanda DeWitt LeBlanc, 26. The bride was dressed in a gorgeous white off-the-shoulder trumpet gown by Romona Keveza. According to reports, the dress was one of three that she wore on her wedding night.

People who saw Chloe’s Instagram video of Lori strutting her stuff were divided in their opinions. Some netizens found fault with the woman’s choice of dress code. One viewer questioned the bride’s mother, asking, “Why upstage your daughter????? Shocking

Someone else who agreed with the previous person noted, “This is what is known as upstaging…tsk tsk.” Another netizen who didn’t approve of Lori’s choice wrote, “Mom, the center of attention? Very sad.” A reader who agreed with the first two commenters added, “She’s trying to upstage her daughter.”

Adding a laughing while crying emoticon, someone who saw the clip said, “Glad she’s not my mother.” While there were a lot of negative comments on the matter of Lori’s gown, there were an equal number of positive ones.

Lori DeWitt and Robert Chance DeWitt at their daughter's wedding in a clip uploaded on June 5, 2024 | Source: Instagram/capturedbychloe.co

A netizen who added a clapping hands emoticon and a fire one deemed that the MOB had “slayed this.” Someone who was a big fan of Lori’s look shared, “I think this is fabulous and the daughter looks proud of her beautiful mother!”

Another positive comment came from a reader who wrote, “Mom looks incredible! My mom SHOULD stand out at my wedding! I would prefer if she wore one that’s more than the typical MOB dress — this is stunning.”

Showing their support for Lori, another person declared, “She was absolutely stunning!” The mother-daughter pair bought their gowns in New York City during a shopping trip. Contrary to the negative comments and criticism, the bride revealed that she approved of her mother’s dress, which she described as “perfect.”

The Florida podiatrist said she didn’t have any issues with her mother’s dress choice for the day. She even went as far as saying she loved what Lori wore, adding, “My mom looked absolutely stunning.”

Amanda showed her mother support against those who felt she’d upstaged her at her special event, saying, “It was just as much her day as it was mine.” Bright colors were the order of the day. Besides Lori, the groom’s mother wore a pink statuesque gown with statement flowers.

Amanda’s mother-in-law (MIL) wore the dress to the black-tie optional affair held on June 1, 2024. The wedding was hosted at Hotel Peter and Paul in New Orleans. The newlywed explained the reason for the bright colors, stating, “We wanted our family members to shine.”

Amanda’s mother was surprised by the negative reactions to her look during her daughter’s special day. She confessed to one publication that she “didn’t realize” that her gown was going to cause a debate and revealed, “But we’re laughing about it.”

The MOB also admitted that she was “the last person” one would expect to go viral on social media. This is because she doesn’t even post images on such platforms. The interior designer, whose specialty is college dorm rooms, noted that despite the criticism she’s received, her dress is a hit!

Lori DeWitt at her daughter's wedding in a clip uploaded on June 5, 2024 | Source: Instagram/capturedbychloe.co

Showing how she wasn’t allowing the negativity to affect her badly, Lori jokingly shared that for her other daughter’s wedding, she was going to wear a “burlap sack that says MOB!” Although she seems to be taking the criticism well, she still felt the negative comments were “a little heartbreaking.”

The loving parent explained that she’d never do anything to hurt Amanda and that everyone in attendance “just wanted to look their best.” Speaking to a different publication, Lori said she “felt absolutely beautiful in the dress,” and their entire family “adored it.”

She revealed her stance on the negativity she got about her gown, saying she has “no regrets” about wearing it. Instead, she encourages other MOBs to look for dresses that invoke confidence and beauty when worn.

While Amanda didn’t mind what her mother wore to her wedding, in the following story, a daughter-in-law (DIL) and her MIL clashed on their looks. The MIL influenced what her DIL wore to her wedding only to realize that they’d chosen the same gown!